So, it’s taken a while to admit this…

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“So, it’s taken a while to admit this…”

Ok, so it has taken me a while to admit this, but they say that is the first step. So, here it goes: My name is Candice McCloud, and I am a Millennial. Whew! That felt great!

Yeah yeah, a bit dramatic, I know, but it feels that way in our primarily over 40 work force. We, the early 30 somethings, are the first leg of Millennials to infiltrate this matured corporate world.

Does that make us trailblazers? If so, then why do I at times find it so difficult accepting my Millennial role/title/position?

I decided to start with definitions.

mil·len·nial : (also known as the Millennial Generation[1] or Generation Y) are the demographic cohort following Generation X. There are no precise dates when the generation starts and ends. Researchers and commentators use birth years ranging from the early 1980s to the early 2000s – source, Wikipedia

trail·blaz·er : a person who makes, does, or discovers something new and makes it acceptable or popular, : a person who marks or prepares a trail through a forest or field for other people to follow – source, Merriam Webster.

Ok, so looks like our first task will be getting into Webster!

But let’s pause here a moment. See, I told you. We are trailblazers; no one even knows for sure from when/where we came. Insert brain image of a herd of 30 somethings with plows in hand overlooking an unmanned field of thought bubbles filled with quotes of: “You’re too green” “Wait, when did you graduate High School?” “I have children your age” “You’re too young, you wouldn’t understand” “Are you even legal?” “When I was your age…” “You’ve only been here 2 years and you already want a promotion?”  And my favorite, “Cause that’s how it’s always been done”.  This, my friends was not included in my course capstone at SIUC (Class of ’07).

Let’s be clear. I’m not complaining or whining, or looking for sympathy. I’m just trailblazing…see what I did there? J

So now, go back with me to my original question. Why do I, and fellow Millennials alike, find it difficult accepting our role/title/position? For me, it comes down to those illustrated thought bubbles. I am in a cross roads of wanting to be taken seriously at work, but still hold on to the youth and excitement that comes with being 30 and single in America.  I think it has something to do with the mythical ‘work life balance’. At work, I’m afraid of being looked at as too young and having too little experience, thus ineligible for higher level roles. At the same time, in my personal/social life, I’m often perceived as, well, too old.

Instead, what I wish the corporate world would see is that, in my 30 years, I have developed a uniquely valuable world view, being raised around the world as a military dependent learning different languages/cultures/people. I went to College for 4 years and charted a path of independence. I had access to an advanced level of information due to technological advances developed in my learning years, and had the maturity and focus in my early 20’s to enter into the workforce with intent, purpose and passion. To my world out of the office, I want them to instead be inspired and hopeful by my journey, and still ask me to hang out for drinks. Because come ‘on guys, I’m still me and I still know how to have a [responsible] fun time.

All in all, I don’t yet have the answers for this next group entering the workforce. However, like my fellow Millennials, I have many many questions and will continue to ask them with solutions in mind. Trailblazing is a journey and I’m happy to be part of it.

My name is Candice McCloud and I am a Millennial. Now where’s my plow!?